Review: ‘The End of Men’ by Hanna Rosin

by Kim on October 24, 2012 · 10 comments

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Title: The End of Men: And the Rise of Women
Author: Hanna Rosin
Genre: Nonfiction
Year: 2012
Publisher: Riverhead Hardcover
Acquired: From the publisher at Book Expo America
Rating: ★★★☆☆

Review: In the 2008 recession, three-quarters of the 7.5 million jobs that were lost were lost by men. Women occupy just over half of the jobs in the United States, and more women than men are earning college degrees. The world is shifting to a post-industrial economy, an economy based on jobs that are better suited to women than men – at least that’s the argument that Hanna Rosin tries to make in The End of Men.

Unfortunately, The End of Men doesn’t quite deliver the answers and evidence to support Rosin’s dramatic claim. When I finished the book, it felt like Rosin was missing something essential to the argument, that the book’s reliance on statistics and big picture shifts in how society functions managed to overly simplify a world that is, in fact, much more complicated than the title of this book might suggest.

I’ve waited a long time to write this review because I’ve been worried about feeling dissatisfied with a big idea book like this one for feeling too simple. Most books that propose radical theories about changes in how the world works are going to miss something – it is unfair to expect this book to be a complete argument when its point is more to explore an idea than offer definitive answers?

But then I came across this piece in The Atlantic, which made me feel much better about my unease with The End of Men: “Why The End of Men is More Complicated Than It Seems” by Chloe Angyal. In the piece, Angyal compares The End of Men to Lena Dunham’s HBO series Girls, and argues that in offering a big-picture view of how the world is improving for women, Rosin’s book glosses over some of the daily realities that make her conclusions seem unsatisfying when compared to what life as a woman is still like today.

I can’t speak to how well Angyal’s comparison between The End of Men and Girls is (I haven’t seen the show), but I can say that there are many moments in the piece when I felt like Angyal had pinpointed exactly my unease with The End of Men. For example,

The End of Men offers a long view of this shift in gender and power, replete with statistics and demographic evidence. A lot of the hard data that Rosin presents indicates that many of the gender gaps that have held women back for so long are finally closing, and then some. But the anecdotal data, the experiential accounts of what it’s like to be a young American woman in this particular cultural moment where women are on top and men are “ending,” suggests that even if the statistics say that they’re winning, young women feel like losers.

I might not go so far as to say that women feel like losers, but I do think there’s something important to be said about the difficulty both men and women face today as the world shifts thatThe End of Men simply doesn’t address in a convincing way.

My other dissatisfaction with Rosin’s argument is that she basically ignores the issues of women gaining positions of power in both the public and the private sectors. She does have one chapter on women and the corner office, but the issue really demands more than that. When a candidate for President tells a story about how he initially had no idea where to find qualified women for his cabinet when he was governor, it illustrates that there are some more systemic and ingrained inequalities in the system that statistics about college degrees don’t address. (I actually really liked some of what Anne-Marie Slaughter had to say on this in an essay in The Atlantic“Why Women Still Can’t Have it All.”)

I guess the point I’m trying to get to is that The End of Men, despite making some interesting statistically-based observations, doesn’t feel like a complete or convincing argument. If you’re still curious about this topic after reading Rosin’s 2010 essay of the same name in The Atlantic, then grab this book. Otherwise, I think it’s safe to skip — the book misses the mark as often as it’s hits the target.

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Jenny October 24, 2012 at 5:06 pm

Good to know I can give this a miss! As I have wanted to do all along because that’s a very annoying title. :p

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Kim October 25, 2012 at 8:26 pm

You know, I get why they used the title. It makes the book sound exciting and provocative, which it is in some parts, but not entirely.

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Charlie October 25, 2012 at 4:21 am

I’ve seen articles about the book by the author a lot recently, but there was something not quite compelling enough, so reading your review sort of confirms my feelings. The title itself is quite a statement so yes, backing it up and presenting everything well is important. I think I’d have to give it a miss, like Jenny.

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Kim October 25, 2012 at 8:28 pm

I haven’t read any recent articles by the author, but I’m curious about what she’d have to say on some recent political issues. Clearly, the way women are being discussed in the current political campaign deserves some discussion and I think her view would be interesting.

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susan October 25, 2012 at 7:58 pm

Too bad. Wouldn’t it be nice if it were true! A matriarchal society for a change

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Kim October 25, 2012 at 8:29 pm

You know, it’s not that she isn’t on to something… it’s just that she tried to oversell the thing that she’s on to, I think.

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Nikki Steele October 26, 2012 at 11:08 am

I was so interested in this book when I first heard about it that I immediately put it on my top TBR list. I think there are some huge changes happening in gender dynamics, and I wanted to read more about it with Rosin.
Unfortunately, after the book came out, a lot of the reviews have read about the same as yours. Unfortunate that such an interesting topic had to be lost in the simplified treatment of it.
I recently read Quiet by Susan Cain and felt like it had many of the same drawbacks (rah rah introverts are always awesome, rather than looking at the spectrum of personalities).

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Kim October 30, 2012 at 8:40 pm

I was the same way — I got really excited when I heard about the book, and made a special effort to get a copy at Book Expo America earlier this year. But it just missed them mark for me, which was so disappointing.

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softdrink October 26, 2012 at 8:31 pm

I picked this up at the bookstore the other day and read the first few pages. And then I put it back. I had a difficult time with the idea that women were on the rise because they were working AND going to school AND raising a child alone AND they were happy about it all because they got more granola bars. Doing everything does not equal gender equality (nor does an extra granola bar seem like a worthy reward). And okay, so that was just one person, and a few pages, but it didn’t seem like she was off to that great of a start.

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Kim October 30, 2012 at 8:42 pm

Right? I found that really frustrating too. That type of example — woman working really hard without a man or with a “loser” type of guy — are all over the book. It was hard to see how those situations could be a good thing.

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